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It has been a month or so…
What a whirlwind of a Month!!!! Last I left here My mom heart was heavy. But I can attest that kids are well thriving and healthy. We have had many chats regarding self worth. Self love and appreciating differences between us and anyone outside of us. Work has been nonstop busy. I applied for a…
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Mental health and the workplace…
A tale of Woes is mine. I am stressed and anxious and riddled with anger which ignites in a moments notice. I can go from fine to fire in seconds, with no regard for who is on the receiving end of my rant. I work in a highly busy, stressful office environment where Loan processing…
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All I wanted was to celebrate you
All I wanted was to celebrate you, to hear all about this new chapter. To feel included in this exciting journey, but instead I got radio silence. You’d rather tell others all about it, and leave me in the dark. You continue to create distance between us, where there’s normally none. I am literally holding…
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Covid strike 2
I am 1 week into this hot mess again. 1 kid “sick” other one stuck here, husband home. My peace and quiet has lasted but 2 weeks. Kids are healthy. One tested positive so here we are. The joy of school. However what bothers me is everyone’s reaction and persecution of our family and our…
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Dear Men, Just do It.
This is a quick and friendly reminder but also a desperate Plea. To Men all over the world near or far, newlyweds, fathers,fiance, boyfriend, whatever you call yourself. If you have a partner in you life (wife, mother of your children, girlfriend, fiancee) and they work at Home, from home, out of the Home, and…
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Joy or lack thereof…
HEY! Happy to report I think I found a nice therapist who listens and understands my dilemma. I am just 1 session in. It took weeks to find one who was available and would actually talk to me. I am supposed to journal things that bring joy, or stress or fear…. But what do you…
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Finding counsel…or.
Does anyone else find it challenging to get help from from therapy, well finding a therapist or counselor?? I have been going at this for nearly 3 weeks reading, calling emailing, Trying to get in with a counselor and it just seems to be the most frustrating slow going Process. How do people manage to…
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Anyone else messed up from 2020?
I have been falling apart mentally for months. My mental health and general health have taken a nose dive in recent months. I have now had 2 nervous breakdowns where my emotions are so heightened I require help to calm myself again. I have spoken to therapist lately. Last night was my latest episode. And…
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Is it helpful? ….then why won’t I miss it.
Holiday weekends tend to be a mess schedule wise for us… This one in particular was especially lonely as my significant other would work the official holiday and the official federal recognition day. 1 day is all we had this weekend together and the amount of nonesense I have put up with in 1 day..is…
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Caring for the previous Generations
So we have been in full caretaker mode for nearly a year and a half. Truly longer but more involved in the past 2 years due to medical situations. Literally from being the point of contact, to calling ambulances to checking hospital stays. It has been a long year, most of which my husband handled,…