The people in the world you are given without any choosing…
The people who are pains in the neck but remain your biggest supporters…your greatest sense of pride…and at time the reason you go crazy.
Family -ohana- no one gets left behind.
No matter how we try to grow and be our own person family defines some parts of us…
For many like myself family reminds me that being strong independent is great but also to be kind loving generous humble and respectable is important. Sometimes we forget that family is our root….these are the first experiences we have with the human interaction…these are our first bonds…our first loves…our first friendships…our first fights…our first reconciliations…everything starts and ends with family. Birth and life bring you together….life drifts us apart but love illness and death ultimatew brings us back together.
Enjoy the family you were given or the family you have acquired because there is no family like yours. We grow similar but there is only one of yours. Be blessed enjoy them and grow to love them.
How some people make you wait all day for their undivided attention only to nitpick the hell outof everything once they in to spend time with you.
My time is too valuable and too preciousto waste in on nonsense.
I could be spending time with my baby girl…
I could be working on myself…
But no here you come nitpicking yourself into my peace….
Well get the hell out…
We dont have time for this.
Everyday we take things for granted…
We forget the value of people when we first met them… over time that value, the importance and the respect seem to dwindle Down into a comfort level in which that which we value most feels completely worthless.
This is the place in which temptation and weakness come in and ruin relationships…families…bonds.
This is the place in which the worthless feelings lead people to believe words or worth from others who may or may not truly value them for who they are. That very moment when a sweet word can sway the judgment and cloud the mind…this is the very moments in which we recall values lost. In which we recall the worth of something or someone we have had the blessing to have all along.
Let us not get to this point. let us not fail to see the worth of priceless moments and people….
Because when we forget….someone else may remember and take the priceless beauty we once held.